This morning I was listening to Richard Rohr talk about six levels of intelligence. He said we reach the sixth level when we wake in the morning happy, looking forward to the day and challenges ahead. I’m simplifying. I also have to say I haven’t achieved that level of thought.
Rohr’s words stuck with me as I walked to my local coffee shop in the center of town. I began to look and hear what was going on around me rather than thinking about the past week or things I needed to get done in the next week. As I heard the rippling sounds of the half frozen Tarnava river I just stopped. There are so many simple sounds and visions around that I tend to forget or take for granted. It was more than the river that made me reflect on how much I overlook the obvious.
After I purchased honey from the ”honey lady” in the market she gave me a blessing for Sunday as she always does. A cyclist speeding by the cathedral took time to cross himself as he rode by. Ducks sat on the ice waiting for something … don’t ducks feel cold? The sky was grey with the hint of possible snow that never came. The “potato man” gave me a wave as I passed him in the market. The checkout person at the grocery store where they usually just say “good day” started a conversation which I’m sad to say I didn’t understand but I did catch that he asked if I was happy. Small things, seemingly meaningless things I tend to overlook.
The one interaction this past week that meant most to me was a FB conversation with Claudiu. Claudiu is an 18-year-old young man who is a member of the family we took under our wings the first year we were here. Claudiu was 11 when we drove to the fields and over creeks to pick him and his brothers and sisters up to
take them to kids’ club at church. He asked if I remembered him. I clearly remember him because when the kids were given a meal after kids’ club, he held his 3-year-old brother on his lap and fed him before he ate his own food. When Claudiu moved out of the kids’ club I took over feeding Marian. I wrote, “I fondly remember you” and he replied “and I, you”.
Claudiu is married now and has a one-year-old. He lives in a town about 30 minutes from here where he built his own three-room cement block home. He has worked in the same job at a bread factory for the past two years. It was 11 p.m. when we ended our conversation and he said he had to go because he had to chop wood for their fire. Small things, not earth-shaking but profound.
As we think about permanently returning to Harrisonburg I will remember so much about our time here but it is the small things … the kids, the potato man, the river, the friendships that I will remember most.
Jay








































